To love and learn sometimes you have to figure things out the hard way.
Giving your heart and your time away is never something you should regret. It’s a pure feeling. I always follow my feelings and that can lead to being stuck between a rock and a hard place.
Listen and read people’s energy.
Don’t always text first. If someone wants to talk with you, they will.
If someone wants to spend time with you, they will.
Most importantly if someone wants to be with you they will and that’s a hard pill to swallow.
If you put in effort and it’s not reciprocated, fall back because good energy should flow back and forth not a one way street.
Attraction is great but I’m really lured to an attractive mind. Attention is not just physical. Attention is communication.
Communication is a major key. If you can communicate your thoughts people are easier to understand.
You can never truly read someone’s intentions but you should read the subtle signs.
If someone can throw your feelings away with no emotion and let you suffer than really and truly they aren’t the right person for you.
It’s ok to make mistakes. Nothing great comes easy and as humans we aren’t perfect. It’s how we fix the mistakes but sometimes it’s a little too late and what’s an apology if it’s not real.
Ask yourself what is this person bringing to my life. If the effort from you is 90% and 10 from them then it’s questionable. If you didn’t message that person would they message you? Would they ask about your day? Would they listen to your problems? Do they ask to hear about your hopes and dreams? Would they support you achieving them? Elevate you? Stay up till 4am just to hear about the dumb stuff you did when you were younger?
Sometimes we settle for the small things that’s just enough to keep us blinded by the bigger picture. You can’t let anyone take your love for granted.
It’s really ok to be alone. Better to love yourself then someone who doesn’t deserve your love.